Ways to Gain Confidence

To create and live the life you desire you must gain confidence within the parts of your life which will get you there.

With confidence you'll get:
• The respect you deserve because others will recognizeyou
• Betterto contact new people
• Readyto new situations rather then intimidated by them.

When you lose your self-confidence, or you find that you do not have the confidence you need to take advantageof the situation you're in, you can feel alone and isolated. When you have problems with low self-confidence, it is important that you do whatever you can to change it. There are a variety of ways that you can change your confidence levels over an extended time period.

Some techniques to gain confidence include:
• Exercising More - When you're healthier and feel better about the way you look, confidence will follow.
• Fake It - By faking self-confidence and forcing yourself to act confident even when you are terrified inside, you will quickly become used to the experience.
• Write Down the Positive - Often times low self-confidence is due to harmed/damaged self-esteem. Part of that comes from focusing on all that may go wrong in any situation. Focusing on the negative can make you feel worse about yourself and less hopeful for the future. Instead, try to change your mind set by writing down all of the positives that come out of every situation, so you can see on paper all of the things that you have accomplished.

When you have a strong physiology, act and think positively you will gain confidence.
“Who has confidence in himself will gain the confidence of others.”
Leib Lazarow

Self Confidence

The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others.

Hasidic Saying